Originally Posted by
Amir Allam
Wrestling is a style of grappling. However, this discussion of whether or not it 'counts' reveals the problems with the entire winning-oriented mindset that currently afflicts our sport. Who should you compete against? People who will give you good matches that will help you both improve your skills and competition comfort level. The number of years that you've been doing anything, jiujitsu or wrestling, is irrelevant. Geo could, if he followed the letter of the rules, still compete at intermediate since he has less than 4 years of training, but what would be the point?
In my opinion, we as a community need to remember to approach BJJ as a martial art; it is a path towards a greater self. Medals are just hunks of metal, and belts are just dyed cloth. Neither contains intrinsic value; they exist only as symbols of things that do. The journey, the self-discovery, the mental and physical strength, the camaraderie, the overcoming of personal demons... these are real things with real value that you will gain from this 'sport'. Train hard and push yourself for yourself. Competing to your utmost effort is a gift both to yourself and to your opponent, with whom you share so much common ground by very definition. You will become better, stronger, faster, and you will know yourself more fully even as you continue to grow and change.