Originally Posted by
sean applegate
its not the spanking dude...jesus. thats all you are talking about, no one on here said dont spank your child...it was the verbal abuse, the child should get the sense that they did something wrong, not that you hate them. my parents spanked me, i got the switch n the belt n everything, but not once were they insulting me or belittling me during it. i mean sure he didnt have to hit her all over but some parents do that. all im saying is theres absolutely no reason to be hateful to your child in any way. it only teaches them to fear you and eventually hate you.