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Why do girls make you choose ive been out of jj for over a year (a horrible 16 months) and now that i got a chance to train again my girl is pissed that most of my free time ill be at jj i feel like its time to get a new girl or just focus on jj and weight find one that loves or likes jj as much as i do
Have you attempted to get her interested in it?
Would seem to be the course of action to take before just dumping her. lol
ive tried even both my instructors have tried one of them being john from the phoenix moon but she refuses i have a set of mats at my house and she wont even try her response is always thats your thing not mine
Have you tried submitting her while having sex? ;)
lol thats actually the only time i dont hear her complain about me using my jj
Maybe she suspects you like rolling around with men more than her.
Though that is true seeing as how you would dump her over it....
Not sure what to tell you if she wont go along with it.
But she did admit that it's your "thing", so really she kinda has to let you have it.
A relationship where either party doesn't at least get to keep their thing is not a good one.
Sounds very similar to a lot of other stories I've heard EX. wife/GF thinks her man spends too much time hunting etc etc. She may eventually give in and realize it's a passion of yours or you may have to make a decision. Luckily for me, my last girlfriend was totally cool with me spending a lot of time at the gym.
Of coure I'm never at the gym anymore, though :-(
My wife is super supportive of my JJ. If u cant find a chick that supports u now either it's a part time hobby for u for u or u put it on the back burner for her. if u put it on the back burner for u and its your passion she aint the chick for u. If she cant accept your lifestyle then she isnt 4 u period.
This is why good invented hookers
My woman encourages me to train. Ive been with girls in the past who get jealous but ive just come to the decision that if they cant understand then theyre probably not someone whose going to last.