well shit sucks sometimes

I haven't posted in a while, things are moving quickly towards the bottom of the commode. I fought on Nov 15th and lost in charlotte nc. I had no corner other than my roommate who is just a fan. No team No coaches no support.(my girl was in the crowd thats it) So i left Feks (where i was training) and on top of not having a job i now have no where to train. I've applied for everything and can't get an interview. I've tried temp services and they can't place me. I'm really against the ropes right now, if anyone has tips tricks advice anything I'm happy and pleased to read it. I just need the fams help on this one.

Maybe its a sign to move? I know I have felt the same way with nobody I know having my back in BJJ or MMA so im considering a small move close to a HotBox to try and change my luck. With the job search your doing everything right it seems, you can try to throw your resume on craigslist it may get looked at for something on there. Most of all I hope things turn for the better bro.

If you aren't above minimum wage for example; gas station, blockbuster, McDonalds u can move to Omaha and get a job. I see help wanted signs ALL the time specifically in the "suburb" Bellevue, as a bonus Bellevue is the home of 10th planet Omaha. My friend moved here two months ago and she is already working two jobs she makes 8.50 and hour at one and 10.50 and hour at another.

I agree with both above. If you are unhappy you should make changes. I know moving is easier said than done, but if you want to get serious about training, Great Grappling BJJ/ 10th Planet Charlotte has awesome instructors.

Do you have construction experience, sales experience, willing to relocate???
WAY WAY up north, but there are some jobs up here and cost of living is real low. A couple of my clients are making comments that they can't find people to work!!!

never above min wage, lol, just don't know how to get out there

And you are always welcome at 10th Planet Decatur if you end up in our area.

Relocating would be awesome, really, i just truly have nothing to get me outta here. To be fair there are other places to train in town. I am serious bout training, but right now I am seriously dedicated to getting a job.

Also I have construction manufacturing metal work fast food and retail exp. if i can convince the ol lady to come with? lol

There is a mall opening like 50 new stores soon near me. Maybe check online, Cabazon Outlets. Im a short drive from 10th Planet Riverside...

Ill just give you a bit of my story, and hopefully you can find something in there thats useful. I was pretty much in the EXACT same situation as you are right now. I NEEDED a place to train, but there was nowhere around me (I was in ohio, and I was looking for a 10th planet gym). So after posting a thread on the forum, I got contacted by a couple instructors who offered me a gym. Long story short, I visited 10th planet Decatur and FELL IN LOVE. It was everything I was looking for. The only catch was.. I didnt have a job lined up, or "enough money" to make it. But after awhile I finally came to the decision.. If i was going to take this thing serious.. I needed to make sacrifices. So about 2 weeks ago I moved down here with no place to stay, no job, the couple friends i had who were going to split rent with me on an apt had withdrawn literally a day before my journey here. But still, I knew if i wanted it bad enough.. It HAD to work out. So I made the drive with just enough money to get here, and last a week. (Thats enough for food and gas, I still had to live in my van just to make ends meet) After that, I just had to believe it was going to work. Now that im here, Ive found a job, I just got paid today which will put me at enough to finally get a place.. And the 2 weeks ive been here have been INCREDIBLE. Not only have i learned a ton, but the people in the gym are already like a family. Its very easy to tell yourself "I just cant do it because of (insert excuse here)".. But trust me, if you are willing to do whatever it takes, its definitely worth going for it. I would suggest making whatever changes you need to make as soon as possible. If you need to move, move. Dont wait around for everything to be perfect or it may never happen. Its always a weird feeling jumping into something hoping it works out.. But if you are willing to do whatever it takes.. (I had filled out 15 applications the first couple days i got here, and lived off tuna until i found a job).. It will work out. And it will feel SO much better once you know you are where you are supposed to be. (even if youre living in a van :P) So my vote is go where you feel is calling you.. And trust that you have the wit/motivation to make it happen. (And this is just a guess, but the 10th planet family is close enough that you might even be able to talk to some of the people at the gym and see if any of them could help you find a job in the area. It helps to have connections) But yeah, thats just me.. Do whatever you feel makes you happiest.. just make sure you dont end up settling on getting caught in an endless loop, stuck somewhere you know you dont want to be.

When I moved up to Humboldt from Yosemite I lived in a tent at a State park campsite and ate soups. Got up everyday put on my nice clothes and and hit the town looking for work. Economy was better then though. Best of Luck!

My dad always said , When the goin' gets tough the tough get goin'. Its kinda been my life-long mantra.

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Originally Posted by WilliamGunter

I haven't posted in a while, things are moving quickly towards the bottom of the commode. I fought on Nov 15th and lost in charlotte nc. I had no corner other than my roommate who is just a fan. No team No coaches no support.(my girl was in the crowd thats it) So i left Feks (where i was training) and on top of not having a job i now have no where to train. I've applied for everything and can't get an interview. I've tried temp services and they can't place me. I'm really against the ropes right now, if anyone has tips tricks advice anything I'm happy and pleased to read it. I just need the fams help on this one.

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Come up to Canada. It is very easy to come up here to work now. Some oil companies even fly you home on your days off. Plenty of good training as well.

Damn bro, I'm sorry things are going rough that way. I'm not sure what I can do but if there's anything you need just let me know. You're always welcome in Tennessee!

Shit can be rough in your jj journey. I personally lived at the gym mon-sat for a year while my girls lived with family. Shit is tough out there just hang in there and whatever is supposed to happen will play out.

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Originally Posted by WilliamGunter

I haven't posted in a while, things are moving quickly towards the bottom of the commode. I fought on Nov 15th and lost in charlotte nc. I had no corner other than my roommate who is just a fan. No team No coaches no support.(my girl was in the crowd thats it) So i left Feks (where i was training) and on top of not having a job i now have no where to train. I've applied for everything and can't get an interview. I've tried temp services and they can't place me. I'm really against the ropes right now, if anyone has tips tricks advice anything I'm happy and pleased to read it. I just need the fams help on this one.

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William, we could use a serious heavyweight down here. Plenty of jobs. Roommate options. Shoot me a private message.

I'm not gunna steal ya from any recruiters ;) but you know you are always welcome here in the Roc.

Thanks guys I always knew ya'll had my back

Just remember if things were better before, things can be better again. Stuff can unexpectedly change quickly :)

Not sure if you were wanting to go pro one day, but heavy weights are hard to find and do get paid more

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Originally Posted by Sean Marshall

Just remember if things were better before, things can be better again. Stuff can unexpectedly change quickly :)

Not sure if you were wanting to go pro one day, but heavy weights are hard to find and do get paid more

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Want? there is no want only will be. brother lol thanks for the kind words i know it's a rough patch but its the roughest i can remember.lol

you've followed me on twitter your life has already improved

head up buddy real talk

Hey brother sorry to hear of your hard times. I'm in Woodbridge, VA which is about 3 hours from you. There are allot of jobs available here. Keep in mind the cost of living is much higher as well (We are about 20 minutes from Washington D.C.). If you're willing to relocate to this area I will be glad to assist you in finding employment.

If you let me know your skill set, what you're looking for, and criminal/driving record I can guide you accordingly. I already know of a couple upcoming opportunities that pay just under $20 hour. One of these doesn't even require any specific skills.

Feel free to message me on Facebook with your details and I will help the best I can.

On a side note, I was in Charlottesville last week and there is an entire new upscale business area being built. It might be a good idea to look into that if you want to be closer to home. Just an additional option.