For first time, Iowa girl wins a state wrestling match ... by forfeit

This is what the kid who forfeit had to say:

"I have a tremendous amount of respect for Cassy and Megan [Black] and their accomplishments," Northrup said in a statement given to the media following his official forfeit. "However, wrestling is a combat sport and it can get violent at times.'
"As a matter of conscience and faith, I do not believe that it is appropriate for a boy to engage a girl in this manner. It is unfortunate that I have been placed in a situation not seen in most other high school sports in Iowa."

I think he should have wrestled her. She probably would rather win for real than because the kid didn't want to wrestle a girl. But he did what he believed was right, so I can't knock him for it.

http://rivals.yahoo.com/highschool/b...hschool-322846

i wouldnt be able to wrestle a girl. which is weird bc i have no problem grappling one. I guess wrestling just seems more aggressive to me. and trying to physically dominate a female would just feel weird. itd feel like starting a fight with someone smaller than you. (and i dont mean this in a sexist way.. i know there are great girl wrestlers who beat guys all the time, its just going out with the motive to manhandle a female seems weird. whether you accomplish it or not)

I totally understand the sentiment but if everybody wants wrestling to stick around, then making it a co-ed sport is essential for it's survival. Dudes got to step up and take one for the game.

Someone said to me once "See girls that wanna train and/or compete as a problem not a person" since I've been cool to roll with chicks. I just don't consider them as females just other regular people that want to tap me out. Think about it if a chick wants to train or compete well I don't see why going easy on her. It's not doing anybody a favor

This isnt the first time.

hey i didnt read the rest i dont care but, if you gotta wrestle a girl you better do your best not to lose. dont forfit cause youll still get made fun of

I think he was just scared to get beat by a girl! Good thing Obama and McCain didn't have this kids attitude.

Gabby had 2 forfeits this year due to the 'not wanting to wrestle a girl' issue. It sucked for her because as a JV wrestler they only get 7-10 matches a year...so thats 2 less matches she was able to participate in....she was upset...she just wants to put her time in and get experience like everyone else...if there was a womens wrestling team then she would of joined that...but theres now so it was her only choice.

The best part is that since he's in the losers bracket, this exact scenario might come up again. He might have to wrestle a girl again. If he forfeits hes out, this is for states no less. I wonder what he will do.

it's pretty simple folks. A pentecostal young boy doesn't want to be rubbing parts with a woman....for him that it's not appropriate. He knows for himself it would be a sexual interaction...he has always held this belief. It isn't that big...it's the same as the kid that will not kiss a girl in a school play.

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

I would have never wrestled a girl in high school. I wrestled in JH & HS it was very rare to have girls wrestling I only saw it once ( graduated '95). Even back then it wasn't because I didn't want to lose to a girl its I didn't want to have to worry about what I was doing or where my hands were. As a normal teenage kid it was almost impossible to suppress the sexual attraction to almost any girl even remotely attractive. Heck I had to keep my mind off the girls in the stands!

For the girls its just competition but for the guys its the additional pressure of suppressing natural attraction. I think it is unfair to the boy.

I also have a big problem with the coaching situation for a girl wrestling. I think that type of contact between an adult male and a teenage girl is simply inappropriate.

Any other sport in HS I actually am fine with girls competing with guys since there isn't the same type of contact and they cant compete at the same level. So if they want to fool themselves for a while go ahead.

As an adult I have trained with females I don't like it but its not so much about suppressing the attraction as it is awkward sometimes. I had a Kenpo instructor make a scene once because while drilling I didn't like having my face buried in this chicks breasts and was holding her loosely. He had a good point that I wasn't helping her since this was self-defense/street fight drill and an attacker wouldn't hold her like that. Sparring was more of a waste of time since the females in that class were just not strong or aggressive enough.

I have three girls and I wouldn't let them wrestle boys after the age of 10 or so. But it hasn't come up yet. /whew

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Originally Posted by 3rdeye

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

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I have a daughter who wrestles you stupid fuck so you should watch your mouth!!! Im not suprised that this comment came from you, Ive seen you write dumb shit the entire time you have been on this forum. If you disagree with a girl wrestling that is fine and thats your opinion (and i have no problem with that) but to call them stupid cunts and whatever else is a different story. Believe me it was a long debated topic in my house as to let her wrestle or not...and it took alot of guts for her to go out there and do it despite the looks she gets everytime she goes out on the mat, the stereotypes (no shes not a lesbian), having to face bigger stronger kids etc. Alot more guts than say....hmmm...using your real name on a bjj forum '3rdeye'. She wanted to do it because she thinks it will make her mma better...and thats that. As far as you go...what is your real name and where do you train??

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Originally Posted by 3rdeye

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

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I will bet my house payment that Gabby would make you eat those words and then some. And if I was VJ I'd roll with you and stick a Maglite up your ass and make an example out of you; right before I broke both your arms, snapped both your ACLs, and then choked you unconscious. I hope this is the last post we'll ever see from you asshat.

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Originally Posted by Jason Hyatt

I will bet my house payment that Gabby would make you eat those words and then some. And if I was VJ I'd roll with you and stick a Maglite up your ass and make an example out of you; right before I broke both your arms, snapped both your ACLs, and then choked you unconscious. I hope this is the last post we'll ever see from you asshat.

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Pwn'd

And Gabby actually has the guts to use her real name when she's on this forum unlike third eye blind up there. Speaking of which, that band sucked.

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Originally Posted by 3rdeye

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

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I dont understand why this kid is even still on the forums spouting stuff like that ?

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Originally Posted by 3rdeye

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

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I gotta believe that's not a serious comment, not one other person on this forum would support that statement. So if that's a joke, your pretty fucked up dude. And if you're serious, just keep it to yourself next time.

V.J. is right this aint the first time you posted some stupid shit! MODs Ban his ass!

Another person causing problems not even a paid member and not using his real name.

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Originally Posted by Jonathan Wylie

Another person causing problems not even a paid member and not using his real name.

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Can you guys see a pattern here? or it's just me lol
Ah god bless the interweb and its retards :)

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Originally Posted by 3rdeye

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

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Someone's mother must of been just awful to him to make him so angry at females. Hey bro, let it go she can't hurt you anymore.

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Originally Posted by 3rdeye

He should have smashed her! Stuck a finer in her ass, and made an example out of the cunt.

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Your such a fucking douche!!! A woman hater and a racist!! Nothing changes with this asshole. John erased your last comments about a certain race of monkeys. Eddie saved your ass last time. Fuck you 3rd eye!

http://www.10thplanetjj.com/threads/...ghlight=3rdeye

I would buttfuck your 3rd eye until you love me some more. Real name is out of the question now for sure. You see, it gets real...

Any mods been contacted on this one? I'm wondering if we're all sitting here thinking "I'm sure SOMEBODY pm'd Scott, Eddie, or one of the moderators..." and so none of us have. My Spidey sense is tingling. I sense a ban coming...

this thread is so full of win
and to be honest i wouldnt wanna roll with a chick cuz i wud be so embarrased to lose
but i would be happy for the girl that she beat the stereotype and beat a guy that is probably stronger than her with her skill
wrestling seems weird and looks weird when girls do it but as long as they arent doing football i dont really care
(for safety reasons) trust me you dont wanna see a girl get clotheslined while running a ball down the field with 5 guys chasing her

since this dust up I wanted to post a vid of my nephew that wrestled two girls in the same tournament... It was so weird in that everyone was cheering the first girl and he just did a double leg and just speared her and the whole crowd just collectively groaned. He showed no mercy....granted he's not quite a teenager yet but still.

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Originally Posted by James Davis

since this dust up I wanted to post a vid of my nephew that wrestled two girls in the same tournament... It was so weird in that everyone was cheering the first girl and he just did a double leg and just speared her and the whole crowd just collectively groaned. He showed no mercy....granted he's not quite a teenager yet but still.

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Vids?