I grew up in Peterborough and dabbled in a lot of different martial arts. I did Karate at 2 schools, TKD at at least 2 schools, Judo at one school, and tried some other stuff here and there as well.
I took Combat TKD seriously and trained with 10th Planet coach Stewart Landry. Stew and I have known each other for about 20 or more years now and we are about as close as probably Eddie and Joe. We trained for years in TKD together and got our black belts together. Right around that time there was a bunch of totally political bullshit going on with our club and our TKD affiliation, all based on greed and federation fees and blah blah blah.
Stewart made the transition into combat Jiu Jitsu while I lost interest in TKD and tried Bujinkan, but realized that it was fantasy baloney and basically quit. Stewart harrassed me for years to come out and train with him in BJJ, and my only level of familiarity with it was that it Royce Gracie laying on the ground, clutching a man and not moving much for a long time.
I wasn't interested at all.
So for about 10 to 13 years I engaged in sitting on my ass, chain smoking, drinking, and wakeboarding, playing music, and other non-martial arts related stuff. Then my wife reminded me one night while I was cross-eyed drunk that I am going to be 40 years old soon, and that I haven't done any exercise at all for about 10-15 years. (ish) I was offended that she didn't respect my invincible health and my infallible black belt (Which I know is just the beginning, but I could have been a 3rd dan by the time I quit, long story), and the fact that I had a street rep. lol.
Anyways, I tried going back to TKD and discovered it had become a "Profit before quality" outfit, and looked at Hapkido and decided I wasn't into that either. I was still stuck on striking arts, and not interested in BJJ at all, but I knew I had to get some exercise. Stew invited me again. (He NEVER stopped inviting me: Thank you Stew!)
I asked him: "Are your warmups good? ...because I am not interested in grappling at all, so I would primarily be joining just for the warmups and exercise"
"Oh, I think they're pretty good" he replied.... LOL.
I couldn't fucking walk for a week and a half after the first class. I got tapped out by a 12 or 13 year old that night as well, after having the mats wiped clean with me constantly by all the other guys over 18 years old. It was an embarrasing ego-check that made me realize that just because I had wicked kicking game in the past, it didn't mean shit.
I was gassing out after 45 seconds of rolling, and getting tapped pretty much every 10 to 15 seconds. I had no idea what to defend against or what to watch out for. All I knew is every single person in that class could dominate me, and that made me re-evaluate my level of confidence. I was an experienced street fighter as a youth, but those days are behind me. I hate the idea of street fighting now, and I'm a family man, but I was deluding myself with my past and experience, and until I went to 10th planet PTBO, I thought I was still just as tough and just as capable as I was 15 years ago. lol. Even after chain smoking and heavy weekend drinking.
As cheesy as this sounds, I have a family to protect, and that first night at 10P showed me that I just might not have teh required skills anymore.
Anyways, my ego has always been something I can manage with humility, and I knew right then that 10thBJJ is the absolute best and most effective form of defense for ground game that can be found anywhere. After only a few classes, my attitude changed from being there "just for the warm up" into being a technique-hungry beast. I am addicted now. I don't think I can stop. Now the warm ups are a tool I use to push myself as hard as I can for toning up and building strength, and I jog to class every class (And quit smoking almost 7 weeks ago) but the REPS are what I look forward to most.
I'm still getting my ass kicked during sparring, but I'm OK with that.