Thank you all for all of the input an advice. I have decided to spend one of my "standup" gym days with a combat sombo instructor, as he said that he is willing to help me work on my transitions (I will in essence be a throwing dummy in the interim). I am currently trying to figure out how I can get to Allentown, Philly, or Rochester for the instruction that Master Eddie has suggested, while remaining married and not going broke.. They are all about equidistant from me. I thought work would be taking me to philly more often, but I'm not travelling like I used to. In the mean time, I have ordered the rubber guard DVD and will hopefully get some drilling in with it.
Can't say enough good things about this forum. I can't imagine a place where the head person would have this level of involvement, other than here. Thank you.