
Originally Posted by
Chris Odell (Datsusara)
Well folks I've been working without Rubberguard and lockdown for a few months now. I've basically been told that I can't get my blue at this gym if I'm going to use those techniques. So I thought I'd try just going without it for awhile. It did help open me up to other parts of my game at first, like more open guard. But it fucking kills me when I have a guy broken down in guard and I can't use my RG to Oma or when I have someone in half guard and I really need that lockdown to keep them off me.
I think I'm about to just snap and drive a lot further to go train at another gym that won't be so ignorant. It's breaking my heart a little since this issue aside I like the gym, it's a few blocks away (which makes it easy to get in often) and the students are a good bunch of guys that I would miss. I have improved greatly in my short time there but I have also lost a big part of my game that I love.
It came to head today when I asked my coach if it would at least be ok if I used all my techniques in a tournament setting even if not at the gym. I could just feel the frustration and annoyance that I even asked the question. He more or less said he's rather have me compete then not but that if I use those techniques he'll be yelling at me to stop doing them. Oh yes and along with all the usual that shit doesn't work, why would you do that etc.
I feel like I'm betraying myself if I just give in and give up on things I love. Would you guys let it go?
Dude, you have to remember, you are a customer. If you're not happy with your experience, stop paying for it. This guy sounds like a dick. I can understand if, for example, he teaches a specific system. In that case he wants you to learn that system, and if you're using RG, etc, than you're not using and advancing in his system. To a point, I can understand that he would want you to be using the system that he's going to be ranking you on. But that only goes so far.
Imagine, you've been training jits for years, and you've learned a different style. You move and find a new gym, and it just so happens it's 10th P HQ! I would be willing to bet, though I could be wrong, that Eddie would want you learning, and using his system. I would HOPE that he wouldn't bash your old system, but would encourage you to play with RG and the new path, lockdown, etc.
I've had my coach tell me I'm not allowed to play guard, because my top game was way behind my guard game. But that limitation was directly aimed at addressing a deficiency in my game. And it was temporary. If your coach isn't limiting you for a specific reason (like what I've mentioned), then he sounds like he's a dick. I don't think I would be willing to pay him for his services much longer if I were you. Especially with him telling you that he doesn't want you using your game in tourneys, that shows that he's not as much interested in fixing what he thinks is a deficiency in your game (by encouraging you to avoid those things that you're already good at in favor of newer things that you've not worked as much and haven't developed), and is instead just being closed minded.