My husband spent most of his time at the gym. Showed me some things, was interested but had no girl/lady partners to learn with so I would just hang out and watch. I knew a lot of the names to moves and subs before I started. Finally got a stable partner, needed to lose some weight and had no hobbies..so it was on. Did my first tournie, 2nd tournie, realized I need to roll with everyone & up my training time. It's been on ever since. I too love the people in the system. I could've never hoped for something so cool, so family like. I love it.

Oh, and also there was this want to be a bad ass if anyone ever attacked me.