Live in NH myself and go to a "traditional" school. I am planning of combining 10th planet with the gracie combative dvds with the school stuff to work something out that works for me. I am new to BJJ and only have 6 months or so of training in krav. I think i am the only one in the school that even has a clue about the spiderweb.
Like the strategy on combining Gracie COmbatives with 10thpjj, both are great for real life self defense. I train in MA mainly around the Cambridge area, there's a few other kids I know in the MA area who are Ronins too let me know if you ever want to train together...