Nick, it's NEVER too late to start.
One of the newcomers at our gym this year was a 60-year-old gentleman with a big beer belly and poor body control/coordination.
His first couple of months, he couldn't keep up at all with the rest of the group.
2 minutes into our warm-up routine (nothing hardcore, just run-of-the-mill BJJ warm-ups) and he was already taking the first of many breaks.
He couldn't shrimp at all and had big difficulties drilling basic techniques.
He was probably thinking along the same lines as you.
But he didn't throw the towel. And we kept encouraging him, pointing out that we all felt like a fish out of water at first, that it took time for your body to adapt to Jiu-Jitsu-specific movements so he had to be patient, ignore the frustration and keep at it.
He kept coming for 6 months, improving his stamina and motor coordination slowly but steadily. And we kept giving him props for small victories like lasting longer during the warm-ups, going half the length of the mats shrimping (instead of just a couple of shrimps) or applying good pressure/control while drilling a technique.
He's now lost a lot of weight, moves a lot better and can do the whole warm-up routine without taking a break, something in which he takes great pride.
Will he ever be a world champion? Not very likely.
Will he ever be a black belt? Probably not.
But he's having fun, challenging himself and improving constantly, which is what really matters in the end.
Sorry for the long-winded story but my point is that you shouldn't look at any end goal you may have and think it's too late to achieve it. You should instead enjoy your journey and take pleasure in small victories along the way, as cliché as it may sound.
One of the newcomers at our gym this year was a 60-year-old gentleman with a big beer belly and poor body control/coordination.
His first couple of months, he couldn't keep up at all with the rest of the group.
2 minutes into our warm-up routine (nothing hardcore, just run-of-the-mill BJJ warm-ups) and he was already taking the first of many breaks.
He couldn't shrimp at all and had big difficulties drilling basic techniques.
He was probably thinking along the same lines as you.
But he didn't throw the towel. And we kept encouraging him, pointing out that we all felt like a fish out of water at first, that it took time for your body to adapt to Jiu-Jitsu-specific movements so he had to be patient, ignore the frustration and keep at it.
He kept coming for 6 months, improving his stamina and motor coordination slowly but steadily. And we kept giving him props for small victories like lasting longer during the warm-ups, going half the length of the mats shrimping (instead of just a couple of shrimps) or applying good pressure/control while drilling a technique.
He's now lost a lot of weight, moves a lot better and can do the whole warm-up routine without taking a break, something in which he takes great pride.
Will he ever be a world champion? Not very likely.
Will he ever be a black belt? Probably not.
But he's having fun, challenging himself and improving constantly, which is what really matters in the end.
Sorry for the long-winded story but my point is that you shouldn't look at any end goal you may have and think it's too late to achieve it. You should instead enjoy your journey and take pleasure in small victories along the way, as cliché as it may sound.
