
Originally Posted by
Brian Debes
I hate that too. Every once in a while, you face someone harnessing the spirit of Brandon Schwab. This is what I would tell my student that was going to face that guy again: For the first 30 seconds or so, you did the right thing. Let it be painfully obvious who's stalling. Then stop. Seriously just stop. Look at the Reff. Your down, he must engage. Don't give up any points (should be easy, he's not doing anything). Pressure will be on him then. It sounded like at the end he said he had never done jiu-jitsu (just a wrestler?). Those guys do that allot trying to play a rule set out of desperation, you have to show them that they can't.
On a slightly more uplifting note: I see this (this exact type of stalling) a TON in beginner divisions, a little in intermediate divisions and very little in expert. So this get better
You CAN NOT get sloppy and give something like mount to a staller though. If you put them ahead on points, they will stall even harder (even possibly disregarding the reff because they know they have enough lead to cushion a penalty even after a warning). Also, the type of stalling done where your opponent just holds a position is much more common and is penalized much less.
Best of luck to you buddy, and don't let this one get you down

Thanks for the reply and advice Brian! It is all taken to heart and much appreciated. I will work on these aspects!
My opponent was an experienced wrestler with 9 months of jiu jitsu experience according to his coach. I do think this was his first grappling competition though?
Actually, If you watch the first time he actually engaged, we ended in North/South position and I locked on a strong South/North choke from the bottom. That make him even more reluctant to attack my guard because his coach was saying the North/South choke was his go to submission after the match lol

That's why you see a huge smile on my face when he bailed out of there. I knew I was in his head after that and then I just had fun. I honestly didn't get too frustrated, I expected him to come out and try to win on points after the 7min of sub only. He played smart boring game and I didn't counter it properly. Valuable learning experience.
I did get a little sloppy and desperate myself which definitely lead to the mounts, and will work to make sure that doesn't happen again.
I also had a little more success when I fake grabbed for the hands, and launched on a leg. I only did that once, and it lead to the only sweep I had the entire match. Can anyone point me to some good setups from here? I usually grab on and try to hit deep half from there (assuming the put a knee down), or turkey wrap, but if they are committed to standing I am a bit at a loss.