
Originally Posted by
Kurzy
No offense dude, but what you're describing sounds a lot like that Gracie "learn at home from Video" academy. The point of going to a class is to have training partners to roll with. Zog never has to hand out a pity tap once, but the students progress and experience learning (and applying) subs via rolling with their team mates.
What you're talking about is a BJJ career in private lessons only, and even in that case, I doubt any instructor is just going to hand out mercy taps unless it is obvious repping like what Zog talked about.
The Gracie 'learn at home from Video' example is spot on. To my understanding, celebrities that take regular private lessons but don't want to go to class due to fear of getting injured are still exposed to hand-picked training partners, even if they were coming in with the intention of only learning from the instructor. It's just the reality of training. You have to have different training partners to maximize your growth. The example in itself was a little unrealistic to begin with. OBVIOUSLY, an instructor would let a student tap them if they were drilling the technique. Obviously. When I'm drilling with a sparring partner, I let him do the move without resisting, then after a few reps I might defend 10%, then 15%, 20%, so on and so on, just to give him an obstacle or two that they need to deal with. The most important thing is that they have the principle ingrained in terms of what they need to be attacking. Every training session should be taken into perspective with the goal of what you're trying to accomplish. If we include drilling, then I got tapped 30 times yesterday alone. If we're only taking into account live rolls, I probably tapped once or twice yesterday to higher level guys. So my question is, do we "count" those 30 taps as taps? That would seem a little ridiculous to me. Do we count the one or two times I got tapped "for real"? You could argue that those were "legitimate", but then another favorite quote of mine comes to mind as a result: "Those who mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind." Think bigger picture. It's not always about 'tapping' the other guy.