In my point of view you should go for wrestling & BJJ cause judo is mostly useless , too much rely on gi , their main goal is to score points , they will never teach you the self defense aspects of it cause they turned this art into a same category as football , table tennis , swimming etc . I don't think its a martial art anymore , nowadays its just a sport . judo starts with a point & end with a point . In a good BJJ school they will teach you some useful throws of Judo like osoto gari , ouchi geri , seoi nage , ogoshi , uchi mata , hari goshi etc . You can learn those throws in a BJJ school too . however Wrestling fall in this sports category too but its takedowns are much more easy to learn & use than those fancy techniques of judo . Most judo throws are very much complicated & it will take a lots of time to master those technique & most throws reply heavily on a GI , without a gi most JUDO techniques will never work . So in my opinion you should go for wrestling & BJJ , its a damn good combination & its very practical .