
Originally Posted by
Brent Elton
Oh no i dont want the body so i look ripped doing jiu jitsu
i want it so i can grapple in bigger weight classes and ill feel more comfortable cuz i will be alot stronger,
also i want the women to be all over me
Women don't give a fuck how your body looks, as long as you aren't deformed, obese, and you know how to groom and take care of yourself.
I had body image issues from 18-20, and lifted all the time to fix it. I broke my hand and had to stop. I know from experience man. If women is your cause for wanting to be more ripped up, fine, it's not gonna hurt. But having muscles is NOT going to make girls automatically dig you, and NOT having muscle isn't gonna make women automatically dig you either.
If you want to be good with women, simply hitting the gym is not the answer man. There arre much smarter and more efficient ways to go about that.
The type of women that are "all over" guys that are shredded up and for no other reason are typically very shallow, and often, in my experience, bad at sex.
If you want women "all over you" do a PUA seminar or some shit. Or just go out there and flirt and talk to as many girls as you can and figure out what works and what doesn't. You'll save a lot of money and energy. That's what PUA classes will ultimately teach you how to do anyways.