Don't worry Mr. Bella, just from the little I can gather from how you speak on the forums, you're a good man. And Gabby will be searching for the qualities that you have demonstrated to her when she's aligning herself with her peers like your caring attitude, your helpfulness, generosity, and overall positive vibe. Sometimes the growing up process is harder on the parents than the children because of the "letting go" process. I see it all the time. I hope you're attending GQ in Coral Gables, FL on August 20th. The more 10PJJ Familia there...the better. I'm tempted to splurge on a 50 dollar rash guard to represent our family, but damn tournies are expensive already. I hope to get in shape to do 3 divisisions.