Starting a new life

I'm 21, unemployed and recently single from a 3 year relationship. I live in a city I love, a country I hate.

My dream was to make something of myself in Jiu Jitsu, but I'm unwilling to open a rival school to my current coach in Liverpool. I'm going to be getting a 5k payout from my grandmother's old house eventually which would pay off my debt and give me enough to last a couple of months in another country and look for a job.

I have a few places in mind, but the main two are Los Angeles and Amsterdam. I know how hard it is to get a job in LA and a place to live, and Amsterdam is the opposite.

I'd like to get a few opinions and a bit of help? I've always lived at home and I think it's time for me to make something of myself. I'd love to open a school in Amsterdam, it'd be a very fitting place for me and I'm pretty sure I could attract a lot of 10th Planeteers to do seminars.

Pros of Amsterdam:

• New City
• Legal Weed
• 1 hour from home
• Easier to get a job
• Cheaper

Cons:

• I know nobody
• There's a Carlson Gracie Black Belt in Amsterdam
• I don't speak Dutch
• Finding students would be harder

Los Angeles Pros:

• I know a load of guys
• I'd settle in pretty quickly
• Better weed
• The best possible place to train, HQ
• Everyone speaks English...although Dutch people understood me better

Cons:

• Expensive to move
• Visa necessary
• Hard to get a job

I'm just at a crossroads in life, newly single and don't want to be stuck here forever. Help!

Packing my bags for Amsterdam, let me know when you land!

Somehow, I knew you'd be the first onto doing a seminar

If I had to move anyplace it would be Amsterdam. The people are awesome everyone speaks English. I like Cali also but to live Amsterdam for sure.

If your goal is to open a school. I would say Amsterdam!!!

Yeah I think I'm going more towards there

Depending on how hard it is to get citizenship and work, I would go to Amsterdam.

I'm already an EU Citizen, so I can legally live/work anywhere in Europe

I would go to Amsterdam my friend!!

Your own moon in Amsterdam sounds g.