When you start seeing the big picture (the multiverse) with a sense of positivity, it's not so difficult to reconcile just about anything and you start making connections. This potential is inside all of us. We just have to choose with vigorous intent to be happy. We have to let things unfold sometimes where we would prefer to control them and stop being so left brain dominated like school teacher tells you when he's trying to box you in (it's an illusion that he's a teacher, he's really an indoctrination preacher masquerading as a teacher by showing you what he wants you to know). You should also try to accept that you as a human are a very sovereign creature and you can realize your own chosen destiny. All the tiny details in our lives are what can distract us and steal that sovereignty. Your mind is constantly bombarded with information that can humble and discourage you. Try to counter that notion with positive emotion like Matt Horwich. Don't be a victim of the past. You are right now. You ARE a great number of possibilities.