"It is under the greatest adversity that there exists the greatest potential for doing good, both for oneself and others."
— Dalai Lama XIV
You have all the potential to be the Neo, the Luke Skywalker, the Braveheart, the Black Mamba all wrapped into one in whatever it is that you do brother. Just the fact that you're still here, alive, and looking towards the future despite dealing with tragedy is a testament to your strength and will to survive and succeed. Know that you're not alone, and that you have an entire tribe, connected around the world, in your corner. Make your successes great my brother, and you'll be the one inspiring others with your story of overcoming adversity.