sorry, but i aint that lucky kid with a mummy that he can force to film as a hesitant grappling dummy... lol.
all i got is text at the moment... so prepare for major suckage.
look at the invisible collar in my picture as an example. the left arm would cross over the top of the right arm, hug their head so the left side of their neck is in the crook of that elbow, and then the hand would reach for their right shoulder. when i got to the position im trying to describe, my right shin was virtually crossing over above my left forearm.