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    Quote Originally Posted by Sean Marshall View Post
    Maybe? Can you really sandbag with a girl vs a boy? Technically you could, but at his gym hes the kid that got beat by a girl. Is it just me or is there a high percentage of young girls beating young boys at tournaments?
    of course you can.. thats like felicia oh doing mens intermediate.. its bull shit.. have you seen her roll? shes incredible...

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    it would be bull shit.. not saying she ever did it..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Max Hernandez View Post
    of course you can.. thats like felicia oh doing mens intermediate.. its bull shit.. have you seen her roll? shes incredible...
    thats what the word >technically< means

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    if i can fight my girlfriend in a mma fight... man i would be soooo happy...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sean Marshall View Post
    thats what the word >technically< means
    shut up sean... your handsome...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Max Hernandez View Post
    shut up sean... your handsome...
    i forget you cant hear my voice in a post and i write stuff thats gets misunderstood. the handsome thing made me laugh, wtf

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    Some advice for the young man.

    There is no “good” time to come out. If you’re waiting for the ideal moment to tell someone that you are gay, you may be waiting forever. There will never be a “good” time to come out; however, your heart will tell you when the time is right. At a certain moment, you’ll just have to bite the bullet and spill the beans.
    But wait. Before you come out, establish a safety net. No one says you have to come out to everyone at once. Coming out is a process. Start by telling a few close friends or family members. Once they are comfortable with your declaration, gradually increase your circle. If you experience any challenges along the way, you’ll be able to fall back on the network of support that you have already built.
    But wait. Before you tell anyone you are gay, try not to anticipate their response. I’ve learned that it is nearly impossible to predict the reactions of family members and friends. Their political leanings, religious affiliations and personal philosophies may serve as indicators at best, but will not predict their reaction. If you expect someone to react positively, you may be severely crestfallen when they don’t live up to your expectations.
    But wait. Before you do all of that, realize that there is no rush to come out. You have your whole life ahead of you. You may be confused, and that’s just fine. We’re all confused. As my life’s hero recently said, “I am Deepak Chopra and I don’t know who I am, what I want, or what I want to be when I grow up.” There is no rush to adapt a label. And, there is no reason to adapt a label if it doesn’t feel right or true in your heart of hearts.
    Now if you do feel ready to come out, and if you are currently in a relationship, consider holding back on the relationship information. Coming out is big enough – especially when dealing with family members. Some family members will unwisely look for someone to blame. If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, that person becomes an easy target (especially if he or she is older). First, come out. Once they are comfortable with that, then share your relationship. Let’s take things one step at a time.
    Use the internet. And I’m not talking manhunt or craigslist. Use the internet to find a local support group. PFLAG is great – there is probably a group that meets near your hometown. Become active. If you don’t currently have a network of support, it’s a great place to start.
    Remember, you will get through this. As tough as things may seem, especially if close friends or family members react negatively, trust that you are strong, beautiful and powerful. Someday, you will look back at your coming out journey and smile, knowing that you are are all the happier for having taken it.

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    Wow, genuinely super impressed.

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    That was awesome!

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