Well Phil noting is impossible. Rent an apartment with a likeminded friend in South Cali., they make em big down here. Get some jobs and for bills, then get better jobs more to deal with your careers and settle down here. Of course besides training the Ribeiro's you will give your kids the privilege of being born and living in heaven lol. So go for it, im a Ukrainian who moved from a small town there to the capital, from there to the USA in Missouri and now finally i live in South California and thats where im planing to stay and raise children. Position over submission lol, position improvement is a wise thing indeed, especially in life.