
Originally Posted by
Stephen Rae
So you were given corporal punishment as a child. Though I admit the bottles and jars are unacceptable, other than that, are you fine? Do you flinch every time someone raises their hand near you? Does the though of branches give you the willies? Are you constantly bombarded by nightmares of your Dad spanking you for disobeying his rules? No? I'm willing to bet your a perfectly normal Human Being for the most part, and that you have respect for your parents. I may not have liked that I got whooped sometimes, but it's not up to me how I get punished, just like it isn't up to you guys how he punishes her. So he whooped her with a belt? At least he wasn't kicking her in the ribs, punching her in the back of the head, or worse. You guys need to chill with the whole "I HOPE HE LOOSES HIS JOB RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE" because it's retarded.
My father was an abusive (mentally and physically) person. He continues to be abusive although it's not nearly as effective now that he is old and I am grown. Without the huge sob story I can tell you this. I moved out when I was 12. He and I got into a fist fight when I was 15 and if not for a very close girlfriend of mine stopping me, I can almost assure you I would have killed him. I was arrested at 16 for shooting a man. I spent almost 2 years in the system and fortunately for me I was assigned a case worker that recognized my issues and placed me in a therapeutic environment (group home for abused and neglected children) instead of letting me rot in lock up. During my time at that group home I learned a lot about abuse and anger and self control. I learned that normal human beings don't do this type of shit to their children.
So yes, I am a pretty decent guy, a hell of a dad, and a contributing member of society. But it wasn't without years of therapy and counseling to recover from the shit that my father did to me.
So I think I have at least some authority to speak on this matter. If not this case in particular but at least abuse in general.