is it wrong to check someone younger than you?

[Shannon]

Its not so much that i want to hurt him, i mean, he gets annoying but i'll take care of the kid any time. more or less its one of those deals where, if you cant respect me and show me the coutesy I show you, then dont get pissy when I put you on your as the next time you wanna try to show off in front of your friends or family.

[michael craig]

dont know about the laws in your state but here its a extra charge for assaulting a minor no matter how big he is..didnt you say he is in high school..and a choke ,armbar etc is still considered assault...

[Scott Yockel]

It really shouldn't be that big of deal. your dating his sister not him.

[Jared Gammel]

"Geez, you sure are strong.. I'd really like to grapple with you to test myself. We should have a little match for fun, everyone could watch."

[Dennis Martinez]

Look inside yourself, sounds like its your insecurites that are the problem not his.

agreed, if it bothers you that much you should realize your a bit more insecure then you think, ive had plenty of people talk trash and act very stupid towards me since ive been doing jits and mma and i look at them and laugh because if they only knew. fact is knowing yourself is what would make the difference in how you feel, anytime he talks trash you can respond and say "didnt i invite you to come train with me to see if you could kick my a$$, then sssshhhh until you have the balls to come train or spar" if it make you feel better but in the end just find peace with the fact that it doesnt matter what he thinks or says. you are your own man.

[AJ Camacho]

So basically, this kid is hurting your feelings?

[Shannon]

agreed, if it bothers you that much you should realize your a bit more insecure then you think, ive had plenty of people talk trash and act very stupid towards me since ive been doing jits and mma and i look at them and laugh because if they only knew. fact is knowing yourself is what would make the difference in how you feel, anytime he talks trash you can respond and say "didnt i invite you to come train with me to see if you could kick my a$$, then sssshhhh until you have the balls to come train or spar" if it make you feel better but in the end just find peace with the fact that it doesnt matter what he thinks or says. you are your own man.

its not so much that i looking to "settle a score" or anything. really i could care less. Not once have I ever picked on him, pushed him around, or stated that I could beat him easily. I mean, the kid gets annoying no doubt, but if he were in trouble i'd help him without hesitation.

its just the deliberate disrespect and big headedness that ticks me off. The fact that his parents feed his ego doesnt go well either.
like the other day, I was standin by the doorway in the kitchen, instead of asking me to move, he gets cocky and puts a hand on my shoulder tryin to force me over.
honestly think the kid needs to be knocked down a peg or two. maybe its just my moral thought, but i dont think you should be a dick to anyone without a good reason.

be humble, respectful, and always have an open mind.

[Shannon]

So basically, this kid is hurting your feelings?

lol nah, more or less for example its like, you've never done anything to me, yet what if you were a guest in my home, and i disrespect you and one up you. would you let it slide or check me and let me know its not funny, and its not cool.

[AJ Camacho]

lol nah, more or less for example its like, you've never done anything to me, yet what if you were a guest in my home, and i disrespect you and one up you. would you let it slide or check me and let me know its not funny, and its not cool.

I'd probably talk to you like a man the first time it happened and ask you to leave if it continued. I don't see how this is an issue.

[Shannon]

I'd probably talk to you like a man the first time it happened and ask you to leave if it continued. I don't see how this is an issue.

but what if your the guest?

guess its just one of those things where he's at "that age" but it gets annoying really quick. not lookin to hurt the kid, just wantin to drill through his head that its not cool.

if anyone on the forum or in general were a guest in my home respect,courtesy, and hospitality would be evident every second. Want a beer, feel free to look through the fridge, pantry, w/e. dont have what you want, let me know i'll find it for you.