Okay. Sounds like you may have a severe sprain/strain injury of the lumbar region and possible compensatory or secondary dysfunction of the ilium/sacroiliac region. The strain aspect of the muscles will heal rather quickly due to the nature of the blood supply. However, where the muscles insert into the bone they become tendons and thus where the sprain is. Also in the area are supporting ligaments and cartilage that are also sprained. The major problem is that cartilage, ligaments, and tendons by protective design don't have the same quantity of blood supply that muscles and bones do, which lends itself to longer time required for healing.
Now the time for using ice was in your acute/onset of injury phase. Now is the time for
moist heat. No dry heat! Dry heat will cause more problems than help. Now if you want to use a heating pad, layer two wet and wrung out hand towels over the area and then place the heating pad over that making sure the towels stay moist and not dry out during the process. Do this for 30 min. Also a hot bath or shower is beneficial. This is simply treatment for the soft tissue.
You can take all the pain pills and anti-inflammatory meds you want [sarcasm intended], but it's only treating the symptoms. A lack of symptoms doesn't equate to health. Symptoms are the last to show up and the first to leave in an injury. This means that before you showed symptoms you had a problem and after you begin to feel better the problem may still be present in a smaller form. Long story long, we need to treat the problem which is causing the symptoms.
Though you have significant soft tissue injuries most likely the primary problem is due to a combo of thoracic(upper, mid, and mid-lower back), lumbar (lower back) and sacroiliac (pelvic) segmental dysfunctions. This decrease the natural range of motion in these areas which severely aggravates proprioceptive nerves in the joints of these regions. That is part of the reason you hurt when you perform certain movements or postures. If this is allowed to go on too long, it can become a chronic, ongoing, yet to a lesser extent, problem.
Nerves aren't in their healthiest state when stressed. Some stressors are beneficial, however constant stress on nerves can cause significant deficiencies. Every organ in the body is controlled and maintained via the nervous system (visceral, sympathetic, and parasympathetic). Too much stress on these nerves can cause problems such as: sensory for sensations, motor for muscle strength and movement, deep tendon reflexes for speed and proper unconscious responses, metabolic pathways in organs that aid in immune response-process of nutrients and waste production-hormone balance just to name a few. This can inevitably allow for disease to set in where it wouldn't have otherwise.
During this healing time you don't want to perform strength exercises as this can exacerbate your injury. The soft tissue massage is great, but performing this solo may require some form of contortion which isn't too helpful.
What you need to restore your body's health and function is to find a good Osteopathic or old fashioned/non-screwy/non-quacky Doctor of Chiropractic. I know this may sound a bit off, but I can't stress how important it would be for you to find one of these practitioners. If this is an option let me know as I may be able to assist you in finding professional help. I wouldn't mind telling another colleague that you're a family member without insurance and see if they wouldn't do me a favor and cut you an affordable deal. If this is out of the question we can figure out something else.
Without being able to physically examine and assess you this is the best diagnosis I can render. Do you live in the states? If so, where generally?
Sorry for the long drawn out explanation, but we'll get you figured it out and get you some help.

Originally Posted by
AndyK5
First Al, thank you for the insight, I appreciate it.
Dcdoctr, here are the answers.
1- No doctor yet.
2- No medications
3- I am going in the chronological order.
a) Streching + Aleve
b) +Icy hot patches
c) dropped the icyhot patches for lots of bengay
d) dropped aleve and switched to ibuprofen, stopped rolling ( about 2 weeks in now)
e) dropped pain medications alltogether to determine what hurts how much and started using a dense foam roll to strech my lower back.
4- I always had very minor back pain when I woke up in the morning or sat in a chari studying for long periods of time, but nothing really stayed for this long
5- The pain is exactly the same as it was the first day. The severity of the pain changes depending on the time of the day. When I wake up my back is sore, but then the pain goes away during the day as the blood flow increases to the area. Also I am pretty pain free for about couple hours after using the foam roller stretcher. It felt like it was healing but one night it got really bad, I had trouble getting out of my chair and my back start to spasm. I went to bed, woke up in the morning and it was back to its original state and the intense pain was gone.
6- It is hard to say where they pain exactly is because i can't really point to it. If I turn my body left, my right lumbar muscle next to the spine hurts. If I turn the other way, nothing hurts. When I am standing or sitting with good posture nothing hurts. If I sit and pull my knees to my chest a thin flat horizontal strech of area that is about 12 inches higher than my butt crack hurts.
7-The pain is a mixture of both. It is sharp when I do something that my back does not like, but sometimes there is the dull ache. Overall, I do not have any pain that stays in spot constantly. It moves around with its severity changing depending on the position of my body.
8+9-The pain does not travel down my leg, but it does move to my lower kidney area sometimes.
10- No lost sensations or strength as far as I can tell.
11- A cat strech which you are on all fours and extend your lower back up, increases the pain if I have any at the time.
12- Foam roller makes it better, resting for a week doesn't look like it helped at all. Heat helps a lot, cold does not, bengay is bullshit.
I would appreciate all help, so tnx doc
